Really good point about the loud minority kicking up a storm on this issue. It definitely isn't everyone, because I know plenty of people in good, healthy relationships (myself included). I think it's unfair to insult people for their lack of success, but also unfair to inflate people's egos to the point where they think they deserve a lot more than they actually do. It would benefit us all if more people lived in reality and had more realistic expectations. Thanks for reading and commenting!