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You Don’t Have To Find All Women Attractive

“I’m just not into bigger girls…”

Ariana E.
4 min readSep 21, 2021
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I know what you’re thinking.

Before you come at me with your knives and pitchforks, let me just say: I firmly believe that beauty can be found in each and every woman. I say that as a woman myself with many, many beautiful women in my life.

But that’s not what this article is about.

And let’s be real — it’s not why you clicked on the title, either.

Ladies and gents, we’re here to talk about the double-standard when it comes to dating preferences.

A woman can say that she isn’t attracted to overweight guys.

She wants a man who takes care of himself, eats healthy, and goes to the gym. It’s not because she’s shallow. It’s because she wants to be with someone she’s deeply attracted to — both physically and emotionally.

And if she can find a man who has that, great.

Kudos to her.

But if a man were to say, “I’m just not into bigger girls…”

Well-

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Ariana E.
Ariana E.

Written by Ariana E.

I said what I said. Counter-cultural opinions on sex, love, and dating.

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