I agree, there is a horrible double-standard. Most of the time, I do write from a more critical perspective of the behaviors of some women. But in this case, I chose to explore a negative tendency that I've seen from some men.
You might enjoy this article: https://ariana-elise.medium.com/its-okay-to-not-find-all-women-attractive-bf4e4e64991d
I try to be fair to both genders, and critique where I see fit. Thanks for your comment!