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A Man In Love Doesn’t Need Sex
A man who is truly in love with a woman doesn’t need sex.
He doesn’t need his woman to spread her limbs like a starfish and lay there unenthusiastically. He doesn’t need his woman to be angry with him and only consent out of obligation. He doesn’t need to feel like a burden, or a chore, or something to “get out of the way” for the evening.
He doesn’t need sex.
A man in love needs very few things — but, at times, they happen to be immensely difficult to give.
Here are the five things he actually needs and some ways that you can provide them.
1. He needs to feel desired.
A man in love needs to know that you deeply desire him. He needs to feel wanted and appreciated by you.
When a man feels desired by the one he loves most, he’s on top of the world.
Compliment him.
If you are impressed by something he says or does, tell him. If you notice that he puts a little extra effort into his appearance, let him know. If you’re proud of him for doing a good job at work, say it. If he does something unexpected that makes your day, tell him.