A Healthy Relationship Makes You Realize What A Jerk You Are

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For most of my life, I’ve thought of myself as a nice person. People rarely get mad at me, I avoid conflict like the plague, and I’m three times more likely to roll over and people-please than I am to pick a fight with anyone.

But being in a relationship made me realize just how much of a jerk I can be. Before having a boyfriend, I thought I was doing well. I…

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I said what I said. Counter-cultural opinions on sex, love, and dating.

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