Unpacking the challenges of modern dating culture. — I have single friends on both sides of the aisle who are looking for love. It makes sense that people desire companionship and support from a long-term partner. But who has it worse in modern dating — single guys or single girls? Here are 4 common issues that men find…

Young men on dating apps get this wrong — and it’s hilarious. — I have one question for young (20-something) men on dating apps. Do you have no one to take your photo? A friend, perhaps? Your sister? Your mom? Too many men are completely incapable of taking good pictures of themselves. Here are 5 woman-repelling types of pictures that you’ll find way…

Another hot-button perspective. — A good friend of mine happens to be a one-percenter. Good looking. Financially well-off. Reasonably center-left leaning. Over six feet tall. Personality with a great sense of humor. The whole kit and caboodle. The only caveat is he’s now middle-aged and, despite dating many women, he hasn’t been able to…

No, not everyone deserves a 10. — “Every woman deserves a 10.” When I was in college, a woman a few years older than me gave me this piece of advice. “You deserve a 10. Don’t settle for less.” So — what exactly is a 10? Whenever I ask single women what they want in a partner, it usually sounds something like this: “First, I have to be attracted to him. He should be…

“I just want a man who’s ambitious.” — In society, women are judged based on their physical attractiveness. In most corners of the world, this is the reality. Attractiveness in the dating sphere tends to center around a woman’s looks, her age (or perceived fertility), and her previous sexual experience. A woman who is young, beautiful, has no children, and is sexually inexperienced tends to be seen as…

Correlation does not equal causation — but it’s more complicated than that. — In a recent article of mine, 10 Surprising Divorce Statistics in 2023, there was much speculation around one of the findings. 1. Couples who live together before marriage are more likely to divorce. It sounds counter-intuitive, but time and time again, the statistics show that couples who cohabitate before marriage…

Safety and vulnerability go hand in hand. — There is something incredibly satisfying about being submissive to a confident, masculine man. He is a man worthy of admiration and respect. He is not a self-obsessed narcissist nor a merciless tyrant. He is a stable and confident leader who knows when to humble himself. He is constantly striving for…

Why get married if you’re going to end up divorced? — A dose of bad internet advice that I heard this week — “Having a successful marriage is as likely as winning the lottery.” This isn’t remotely true, but it did get me thinking. Is a successful marriage really as rare as everyone claims that it is? …

All the reasons that OnlyFans models can’t find a date. — It’s undeniable. There is a stigma around doing sex work. Regardless of how “sex-positive” society has become, the average person cannot separate sex from its natural purposes. While sex does not guarantee love or emotional intimacy, we cannot pretend they are entirely separate. On OnlyFans and the porn epidemic — In modern culture, pornographic content has become…