All the reasons that OnlyFans models can’t find a date. — It’s undeniable. There is a stigma around doing sex work. Regardless of how “sex-positive” society has become, the average person cannot separate sex from its natural purposes. While sex does not guarantee love or emotional intimacy, we cannot pretend they are entirely separate. On OnlyFans and the porn epidemic — In modern culture, pornographic content has become…

The movies are completely inaccurate. — I recently watched the movie, “No Strings Attached.” Your typical friends-with-benefits-turned-lovers plot. Boy meets girl. They sleep together. Boy catches feelings. Girl does too but isn’t brave enough to admit it. They break up. Girl finally admits her feelings and they get back together. Whoop-dee-do. Predictable, boring, and completely unrealistic. …

“Every man wants a Victoria’s Secret model.” — We’re often told that men have unrealistic body standards for women. We’re told that men expect us all to have flat stomachs and big chests and look like skinny, mini Barbie dolls everywhere else. It’s the influence of the dreaded “male gaze” where we have to look like Victoria’s Secret…

Women don’t care about looks as much as you think. — You’ve probably heard this one before — “Men are visual creatures.” Men care a lot about looks, body types, and physical — assets. They want to be with a woman who they find beautiful to look at. Is that really so surprising? But when it comes to these matters, women…

Can men and women be friends? Yes…and no. — My cousin recently ended her friendship with a “guy friend.” “It was like he only wanted to talk to me if there was a chance that we’d have sex,” she lamented. “Why couldn’t he just be a good, genuine friend?” Most women have gone through this type of friendship in some capacity. Boy meets girl. They start spending time together. Boy finds…

For the inexperienced dater on finding love. — I didn’t have my first serious boyfriend until I was 22. In Gen Z years, that is seriously old. It may be unusual for a relatively normal young woman to have never dated anyone by that time in her life. But is it a red flag? Short answer — it depends. Long answer — it depends on a person’s reasons for…

Debunking the myth. — A friend of mine recently came to me for girl advice. He explained that he really liked this particular girl, but she hadn’t responded to his text messages in over a week. …

Exploring the modern marriage crisis. — When it comes to dating, both sides of the aisle are hostile toward one another. Men are angry at modern women for being too masculine, aggressive, sexually liberated, and blue-haired-radical-feminazi. Women are angry at modern men for being too toxic, emotionally constipated, not taking enough initiative, and perpetuating misogyny at the same time. We hate each other, and can’t live without each other at the…

Why aren’t we educating women about their bodies? — What if I told you there was a safe, effective birth control method that had zero side effects? That didn’t involve artificial hormones, painful implants, or physical or chemical barriers during sex? At the very least — wouldn’t you be curious to learn about it? We live in a “quick fix” culture. Health classes in high schools…