3 Harsh Truths About Overinvesting In Relationships

Putting in more effort won’t make them love you.

Photo by Julia Mourão Missagia

We tend to assume that the more we do for someone else, the more they will appreciate us.

This unfortunately is not the case.

The crazy part is that it actually makes us want them more. We try harder. We do more. We put in extra effort to get…



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Ariana E.

Ariana E.


I said what I said. Counter-cultural opinions on sex, love, and dating.